Drama In Lagos Church As A Man And His Family Disrupt Wedding And Insist The Bride Is Already Married
A wedding which held in Lagos on Saturday, August 29, was disrupted when a man stormed the venue with his family members and claimed the bride is his wife.
The wedding was underway at the Great Salvation Christian Centre, aka Father’s Church, on Ako Aro Road, in the Ifako-Ijaiye area of Lagos State, when the man named Iberemu Osadebe, arrived and caused a scene.
According to Punch, Osadebe and the bride Gloria have been together for 20 years. They had a son in 2011 and had a traditional wedding after their son was born. However, Osadebe became sick for about five years, during which he sold most of his property to seek a cure.
The Imo State indigene, who was reportedly suffering paralysis, was said to have later travelled to his hometown in Isiala Mbano, to continue the treatment.
He was reportedly on his sickbed when he received information that Gloria, from Edo state, would be getting married to another man on Saturday, August 29, 2020.
The 43-year-old returned to Lagos on Friday, a day to the wedding, and reported his plan to disrupt the wedding at the Agbado Police Station.
On the wedding day, he arrived at the church at about 11am. Church leaders had received information that he was planning to disrupt the wedding, so when he arrived, they recognised him and appealed to him to let the matter go, but he refused.
Some members of the National Union of Road Transport Workers, who were said to be colleagues of the new groom, identified as Henry, were also invited to mediate.
The wedding went ahead despite the disruption but as the church’s pastor was about to join the new couple, Osadebe’s family members marched to the pulpit and revealed that the woman was already married and could not be joined in holy matrimony to another man.
Pandemonium broke out then and the church’s security guard bundled them out of the church.
The guards later mounted a defence at the church’s entrance, while Osadebe and his family protested and demanded an end to the ceremony.
Speaking to Punch, Osadebe said: “I was in a relationship with my wife for 20 years; we had a child together in 2011. My mother objected to our union because she is not from my tribe, but I said I loved her.
“When my mother died and I wanted to travel for the burial, my wife said she would not follow us, because it is a taboo in her tradition for a woman, whose bride price has not been paid, to go on such a journey. She also refused to release my son.
“When I got to the village, the elders were angry that I did not come with my wife and son as my mother’s first child. They fined me N40,000. After that disgrace, I vowed to pay her bride price.
“I immediately sold the land I had for N1m, and I sent N500,000 to her account to keep for the purpose. In 2017, we went to her family and paid N280,000 for the bride price. They demanded groundnut oil, tubers of yam, among other things, which we valued at N60,000 and paid.”
The former bus driver said Gloria refused to follow him to the village when he became ill and travelled for treatment.
He alleged that while he was sick, she called to tell him that she and their son were starving. He said he instructed that his bus be sold and the proceeds given to Gloria to start a business and pay the son’s school fees.
He said he was shocked when his relatives called to inform him that his wife was remarrying.
He added that though he still loves the woman, he has decided to let her go, but not without the release of his son and refund of the bride price.
A family member of the husband, Richard Ikere, claimed that he was part of the delegation that paid Gloria’s bride price in her hometown in Uromi, Esan North-East area of Edo State.
Ikere alleged that Gloria started seeing the new man while her husband was still in Lagos.
“When I heard that she was getting remarried, I called my brother in the village and asked if he was aware. He said no, but that while he was receiving treatment in March 2020, someone brought a letter to him and he kept it.
“He said when he later checked, he found out that it was a divorce letter. How can a court dissolve a marriage without hearing from the man? That was when I asked him to come down to let people know that he is still her husband. And if she wants to leave, she should release his son to him.”
Ikere added: “It was after he discovered that his wife wanted to remarry that he started to stammer. He was pained that a woman he loved so much betrayed him. It is unfair. A man sold his land, vehicle and other property, and yet you’re not satisfied.”
The wife of the church’s founder, Prophetess Ebube Evans, said she knew both Gloria and Osadebe, adding that the couple visited the church about two years ago while seeking a solution to the husband’s paralysis. She said Gloria later told the church that her husband withdrew his membership because his health condition had improved.
Evans stated, “After a while, the woman complained to me that the man had started selling their property. We later discovered that the man was using her to beg for alms at Ogba bus stop. We observed that by 6pm, she dropped their son in church and returned around 11pm. She lied to passersby that she was stranded and needed money to return to her house in Ekiti. The money she made was what they were using to feed and survive.
“She later complained that the man used the little she made from the alms to drink alcohol and smoke at a joint.”
Evans said the church advised her to stop begging for alms, adding that her husband, however, became angry, sold all their property and left for the village.
She added, “For the period he was away, nobody asked after the woman or her child. We fed her and sent the boy to school.
“At a point, she became very ill and needed a surgery. The church raised money for the treatment.
“They were sent out of their house because the man owed two years’ rent; I gave her one room in my flat. Nobody gave us anything. Would you say the marriage was still on, when you didn’t value the woman and her child?
“The woman is an orphan. She was living with me when this young man (Henry) showed up and said he wanted to marry her. I was happy for her, knowing the church’s burden would reduce.”
The prophetess explained that when the remarriage came up, her husband demanded a formal divorce note. She insisted that the court dissolved the union and Osadebe was served.
Prophetess Evans claims the church held the wedding because the court also ruled that the new couple could go on with their life.
She said: “The woman suffered with him when he was completely incapacitated. Whenever he soiled his body, the woman cleaned him up and bore all the pains. None of his family members showed her love after he left. And now, they want to destroy her new marriage. Is that not wickedness?”
The alleged divorce letter dated March 23, 2020, was a summons. In it, the couple was asked to appear before the Ojo Customary Court on April 1, 2020, but the sitting didn’t hold due to the coronavirus outbreak.
According to the court papers, Gloria sought divorce on the grounds of “drunkenness and smoking, lack of care, stubbornness and no more love.”